Do All Online Relationships Lead To Cheating?
You’ve met a great girl over the Internet. She’s smart, pretty, laughs at your jokes, and may very well be the perfect person for you.
Your problem though is that you are married to the girl you believed to be the right one for you. But then, you are confronted with the persistent question of identifying which among your activities online with the other girl can be considered as cheating?
That’s a hard question to answer because cheating is a somewhat subjective term. We are learning that cheating isn’t purely a physical act.
Cheating is definitely not just about having sex with another person, there’s more to it. One thing that can be equally, if not more, destructive to your spouse is that one involving emotions.
When does it become cheating?
You Feel Some Guilt
Do you feel guilty about the chats you’re having with the other woman? Do you enjoy the time you spend with the other girl but, in the back of your mind, feel that you’re doing something wrong at the same time?
When you have that teeny bit of feeling as if you are something that is not good; then it’s usually a signal for you that it is not – at least to some degree. Usually, people won’t feel any guilt except for a reason.
It doesn’t mean that you’re a bad person or that you’re trying to do something wrong but that feeling in the back of your mind is telling you that you should not allow this to continue. It’s the first warning bell.
When You Can’t Tell Your Wife
The number one rule of thumb to follow is this: if you would not share the emails, text messages, and chats with your wife then it’s a good sign that you are cheating – emotionally anyway.
Think about it.
Your wife is the one person that, before now, you probably shared everything with. She’s the person you shared your heart and soul with. Now there is someone else, someone miles away that you are pouring out your heart too.
There should not have been an issue, but when you pour everything to the other woman; you eventually stopped sharing with your wife. You place a gap between you and your wife and it’s making you grow apart while on the other hand you grow closer and closer with the other woman.
You know full well that once your wife gets will get a glimpse of your letters, emails, chats and text messages you are exchanging with the other woman she will definitely be hurt. It is believed that you don’t have intention of inflicting pain to your wife. Do you think that such think is worth risking for in having an online relationship?
Are online relationships some form of cheating? Most are cheating. It’s just that you have not consummated the affair as of the moment. It is you who have the capacity to stop it in its tracks before it destroys your marriage.
If your marriage is already suffering the ill effects of online cheating it’s not too late to save your marriage and get your wife back. Unique version for reprint here: Do All Online Relationships Lead To Cheating?.
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