Does He Love The Other Woman More Than He Loves Me?
Is it really true that if a man cheats on his wife, it means he does not love her anymore? That’s what most women think when they learn about the affair of their man. They become self pity and pathetic to the point of shutting themselves from the outside world. In short, they hide themselves at home for they believe that cheating is the end of everything.
The good news (if there is good news to be had at a time like this) is that cheating for most men has absolutely nothing to do with love. This includes his love for you as well as any love you might fear he has for the other woman. There are a few rare exceptions but if he’s trying to work things out with you, the odds are good that he isn’t harboring any thoughts of love for this other woman.
How could he do this to me! Is she really in love with her?
I know it’s hard to see two sides of this issue at the moment but try to see things from his eyes rather than your own. Put aside the hurt and anger. See it from his point of view.
What is he getting from the other woman that he isn’t getting from you? If you don’t know the answer to this question you need to find out what it is. The chances are that it is something he isn’t getting at home. It may be sex but you might be surprised to learn that it is something that goes much deeper than sex.
These are some of the reasons why a man is driven to have an affair with another woman.
She is very vocal of her admiration for him. Your husband often gets praises from her which is supposed to be coming from you. Men are tough but they do easily melt on simple gestures like telling them how handsome they look or how attractive they are on their suit.
She doesn’t try to bend him to her will. It sounds so ominous but how many times have you asked him to fix that leaky faucet, paint the garage, or get rid of the recliner he’s had since college? He views these things as you trying to change him, nagging him, or just reminding him of all the ways he isn’t measuring up to your expectations.
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