Lady Antebellum’s Song “Need You Now”, Voted Worst Break Up Song
Tuesday, February 9th, 2010Going through a break up is a horrible emotional experience. If you have ever heard the song “Need You Now” by Lady Antebellum, if you haven’t I suggest giving it a listen, it’s a fantastic song. In the song the characters are going through all the pain of a break up and making a lot of mistakes.
Here are the words in one line of the song: “It’s a quarter after one, I’m all alone and I need you now. Said I wouldn’t call but I lost all control and I need you now.” Don’t be desperate and start dialing.
Here is another line: “It’s a quarter after one, I’m a little drunk and I need you now.” Drunk dialing is even worse. The other mistake that is often made is texting the ex, and texting and more texting. You become what is called a Text Terrorist. That will not work either.
What should you do to get your ex back?
Ask yourself one thing and be honest to yourself. Do I really want my ex back? Look deep inside to make sure the love for your ex is really there and this is not just a reaction to the loneliness.
So did you answer: Yes I want my ex back! If so there is a process for you to follow.
Make SUre You Do Not Do What Is Expected
What ever you do, do not be predictable. You want to keep the ex wondering and make them earn their way back into your good graces.
What can you do to keep from doing what is expected? Put an end to those daily habits. Chances are doing the same ol’ same ol’ is what got you here in the first place. It’s time to add something fresh and exciting to your routine.
Put Some Relationship Goals in Place
Even if you are separated goals can still be set. When you are trying to get your ex back, the goals are a vital part of the process. Goals should be set for different degrees of closeness and affection between the two of you and then achieving those goals is key.
Here is a list of goals you will want to consider: reaching emotional milestones, making physical changes and being able to control your temper to start with. It will be up to you to choose the type of goals that pertain to your relationship.
Take Responsibility and Hold Yourself Accountable For Successes and Failures
Accountability is something that is in surprisingly short supply lately. Be accountable to yourself for failing to meet goals. At the same time you should also reward yourself for the goals you do achieve.
The best two motivators are reward and punishment. They can be used as tools. Some rewards that you might choose: a new video game (if that’s your thing), a new hair style (if that’s your thing) or a fun night out with friends. You want to do stuff that assures an active lifestyle. Activity will keep you healthier, you do not want to complicate all that is happening with health issues.
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